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March 7, 2013 by SHI Staff

Survivor Story: Robin’s Journey to Redemption and Restoration

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My name is Robin. I was born in Portland, OR but grew up my whole life across the river, in Vancouver, WA. I was fortunate enough to be raised in a home where I could feel safe and know I was loved. My mother took me to Sunday school and taught me the love of Jesus. Every teacher I ever had liked me and I did we’ll in school. Growing up I was popular, and had a lot of friends.

I became alcoholic after my first drink at 14-years-old. Gradually through my adolescence, I began experimenting with other substances and they became more important to me than school.  After miserably failing almost two years of college, I dropped out. I had just turned 21 before I met the man who sold me a dream. The dream turned into a nightmare and the nightmare lasted six years. In those six years I was prostituted up and down the I-5 corridor from Seattle to San Francisco, Los Angeles, Phoenix, Las Vegas, and Honolulu, Hawaii. I walked away from my pimp in 1999, penniless, alcoholic, and addicted to crack-cocaine. I have never gone back to him.

It took me over 12 years away from the life to be strong enough to really look at what had happened to me. I was 21 years old when my pimp walked into my life and because I was an “adult”, I always carried the guilt and shame for “choosing” this lifestyle. I wasn’t ready to look at my past until I learned about my past. Once I learned about my past, I gathered enough strength and humility to tell my story. Telling my story and backing it up with the truths, rather than misconceptions about prostitution, allowed me to heal. When I saw myself as a victim, no matter my age- that’s when I was able to forgive myself and move on.

Defenders were few and far between when I was living in the streets where men bought and sold women and young girls for sex. There was only one Defender who could save me from the bondage of sex-trafficking; that Defender was Jesus! I often wonder if my life would have turned out differently if there were more men of God living as Defenders.

Despite growing up in a good home, learning manners and respect, no one taught me to love or respect myself. When I see men taking the Defender’s pledge today, my heart fills with love and hope for the future; but I don’t see enough men taking the pledge. I want to see our nation’s leaders, our pastors, and our teachers taking the pledge.

I want to see these men teaching our sons how to live as Defenders of women and how to stand up against immorality — without feeling like there is something wrong for doing so. When a man promises not to purchase or participate in pornography, prostitution or any form of the commercial sex industry, demand decreases.

“But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness” (1 Tim 6:11). When a man promises to hold his friends accountable for their actions toward women and children, our daughters become safer and demand decreases. “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another” (Prov. 27:17). When a man promises to take immediate action to protect those he loves from this destructive market, families are not torn apart and demand decreases. “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever” (1 Tim 5:8).

When I see men taking the pledge to be a Defender, I see God moving.

Robin became involved with trafficking when she was recruited by a pimp in 1993. After six years of abuse and many near death experiences, she was delivered by her Savior Jesus Christ in 1999. In June 2012, Ms. Miller earned her bachelor’s degree in Social Science from Portland State University. She is active as an advocate for victims of sex-trafficking. Today Robin is the volunteer coordinator and receptionist for a non-profit organization in Vancouver, WA. 

March 5, 2013 by SHI Staff

The Justice Conference 2013 – Defenders’ Theology

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5,000 people.

5,000 people is about how many people showed up to the Justice Conference on February 22nd and 23rd in Philadelphia,  PA. Almost 10,000 if you include all of the simulcast locations. If you don’t know about the Justice Conference, it is an annual international conference held every year where people gather together and discuss what it means to pursue holistic justice. I don’t know about you, but it is pretty encouraging to see so many people passionate about this. It excites me to see that there are so many people out there that think it is better to give than to receive. I’m excited that people are ready and willing to make a difference. On top of that, there were hundreds of exhibitor organizations, ready and willing to equip people to pursue holistic justice that cares for the poor, marginalized, and oppressed. I’m so happy about that.

At the Justice Conference, I got to have many great conversations with people I’d never met before. Often, I would introduce myself to men by saying, “Hi, my name is Ethan.” Then the person would introduce himself, and then he would almost always ask, “So why are you here?” Whenever this question was asked by a man, I would first say, “well… I’m a Defender,” and then I would continue to say my other reasons, like me being a pastor, student, and writer on Justice. Almost always, the followup question would be, “Oh…what is a Defender?” Then I would get to explain about the Defenders, and I invited them to check out the website (and our booth at the conference), and to take the pledge. It was so awesome to see so many men excited about taking the pledge and becoming a Defender!

I’d like to spend some time thinking about the theology of a Defender. Brenda Salter McNeil, a speaker at the Justice Conference, said that our theology directly affects our anthropology. Theology is answering the question of who is God. This question will directly affect how you see and view people.

For me, I believe that God has a heart for the oppressed. I believe that God wants people to be well, to be whole, and to have dignity—including the women and children who are trafficked daily! Deeply rooted in my belief about God is the idea that he cares for the oppressed, the marginalized, and the well-being of all human beings. As you can see, my theology directly affects my anthropology. And I think yours does too. Think about that yourself, and ask this question: how do I view God and how does that affect how I view people? I think as Defenders, we need to have a Defenders theology. God cares for the widows and orphans, and he cares for women and children. Everyone has dignity. Everyone has rights. As a Defender, we are called to end the demand for commercial sex because that is at the heart of God’s desires.

I’ll end with another quote by Rev. Brenda Salter McNeil. “God is raising an army that is going to do justice and love mercy” and “God is [definitely] doing something unusual.” Defenders, its time to take action. We have the support of at least 10,000 other people who care about what we are doing to bring about justice. Be encouraged by that, and lets make a difference. Lets end the demand.

February 26, 2013 by SHI Staff

Defenders Guest Post: Stop Traffick Fashion


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Guest Blog Post by Melissa Wuske

“I have found great freedom. I want to give God thanks. He has given me good things—health, peace, a good husband, a good family.”

—Ashoka, survivor of the sex trade in Kolkata, India

At Stop Traffick Fashion, we’re all about women around the world like Ashoka. Started in 2009, Stop Traffick Fashion provides opportunities and hope for survivors of human trafficking, while offering women stunning ethical fashion. Survivors and those at-risk of human trafficking make all of our products and are paid a fair wage for their work. This empowers them to create a sustainable income and live a free, happy life. In addition, a portion of all sales revenue is donated back to organizations that rescue victims and provide rehabilitation and training for victims of human trafficking. So whatever you buy, from T-shirts to handbags to jewelry, you’re helping someone make a fresh, free start in life—and freedom is a beautiful thing.

We’re working toward cultivating and expanding our custom line of bags, jewelry, and t-shirts in order to bring socially conscious, fashion conscious women products that tell a story of freedom. We want every piece in our collection to be so striking that it starts a conversation, opening an opportunity for people to talk about human trafficking.

At STF, we’re passionate about helping people use their unique skills and interests to fight against human trafficking and become everyday abolitionists. We’re not all lawyers and social workers living on the frontlines of the fight against trafficking, but each one of us can take small steps toward big change. Our founder, Emily Hill, lives out her love of ethical fashion and social justice through STF. As the communications director, I combine my writing skills with my compassion for exploited people. It’s exciting to know that I can equip people to end trafficking by blogging about ethical fashion, human trafficking, and empowering women.

This excitement to mobilize all types of people makes us so excited for The Defenders movement. Men are a powerful and needed part of the anti-trafficking movement, and while STF’s approach is decidedly ladylike, we love to see men taking a pledge to action.

Melissa Wuske, Communications Director at Stop Traffick Fashion. Melissa loves merging her passions for writing and for helping provide restoration for exploited people. She graduated from Miami University with a degree in Adolescent English Education and is a former middle school language arts teacher. She now works full time as a freelance editor and lives in Boston, Massachusetts. Melissa has visited Fresset, one of STF’s partners, in Kolkata, India.

February 14, 2013 by SHI Staff

Defenders’ Stories: Trong’s Journey

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Guest post by Trong Hong

I have chosen to be a Defender of children today because of my childhood experience. When I was only 9, I was placed on a life boat by my parents, trying to save me from all the horrors of abuse by the Vietnamese government at that time. After many treacherous days on the boat, I felt helpless and all alone. No one was there to defend us, and I remember wishing that somebody would just step in and rescue us.  I was so powerless because I was so little. All I wanted was somebody to protect and care for me.

Today, as a grown man in my thirties, I have an opportunity with the Defender Campaign to stand up for the lives of little ones.  I have a family of my own now and every time I see my precious children, how defenseless and vulnerable they are, I am willing to do anything in my power to protect them. There is such a need to stand in the gap for these innocent lives, for Defenders who will guard our children against the evils of the world. That is why I became a Defender with the Defender Campaign.

Trong’s Journey:

Trong was born in Vietnam. He grew up in a time of war and a political unrest. As a small child he remembers bombs and missiles flying right over his head, just missing him. At the time, Trong never imagined that the government planned to force him to be trained to fight as a child soldier, as so many other children his age were. Therefore, at the age of nine, Trong’s parents put him on a small ship to save him from the future that awaited him in Vietnam.

Trong was told he was going to his grandma’s house, which was only a one day boat trip. He started his journey by getting on a small boat that was packed with other men, women, and children. A few days came and went, but there was no sight of land. He saw nothing but vast, rumbling sky and the faces of scared, hungry refugees. Soon they ran out of food and water. Raw fish had become their only source of nourishment, but even that was difficult to catch and scarce. Trong can remember hearing other children whining for food while their parents sat there, helplessly, giving up hope. These innocent children did not know what was happening to them, why their parents would not give them food when they were so hungry, and why they had been put on this boat, never to see their home again.

These conditions were perfect for piracy. These pirates are not of the swashbuckling variety; rather they are common thugs and murderers on the high sea. They hurt people, almost casually, with women and children experiencing the worst of the violence. They were local fishermen who were poor and were looking for an easy means to supplement their income. These ruthless pirates, armed with guns knives and hammers, regularly attacked the Vietnamese people. Trong witnessed these criminals performing the worst of their crimes as his boat was attacked repeatedly by pirates. They would invade the boat, steal all the supplies and kidnap the young women to be sold to nearby brothel villages. An old man’s gold teeth were ripped out of his mouth with pliers, and a woman watch as the pirates threw her baby into the sea. Women and children were made to strip and line up. The choice ones were selected and taken on board a fishing boat. These attacks continued, and over the next three weeks little girls were repeatedly raped. Little Trong’s heart was broken for these women and little girls. He could not stand the site of all the abuse that he was forced to watch.

Many of the people were afraid to speak up or to fight back because the pirates who remained became increasingly brutal and ruthless, ensuring that no witnesses would dare identify them. Many times, when these pirates attacked a boat, they would simply use their weapons to kill everyone on the boat, including women and children, while some victims were dumped into the sea to die slowly. Those who survived on Trong’s boat counted themselves lucky. The way they killed these people, which has now been documented, was inconceivably barbarous. The torture that was endured was comparable to the more well-documented brutality of the Nazis or Pol Pot’s clans. None of these murderers were ever brought to face the weight of justice.

Because of all the damage the boat had sustained from storms and attacks, it was finally unable to continue its journey. In one short burst of fear and chaos, Trong found himself shipwrecked. When he woke up, he was on the shore of a small Island. The first thing he did was scramble to the nearest source of water, a small puddle, for the first drink of water he had tasted in several days. There were other survivors, but the pervading sentiment was every man for himself. Being only nine years old, Trong had to separate himself from the stronger adults, as they provided more danger for him than safety. He found himself a shelter, a place he could be alone, trying to escape from the pain of all he had suffered and witnessed. The cave he found was a perfect place of peace. He eventually made good friends in that cave. The island’s inhabitants, a community of monkeys, were welcoming neighbors, and they soon became Trong’s only companions.

After about two years of this life of struggling for survival, he was finally rescued. He was sent to a safe place in Seattle, WA. There he was able to rebuild his life once again. He suffered severe depression when he arrived but was thankful to be alive. One thing he knew for sure, one thing he carried with him through the horrors he had seen, through the hunger, pain, and loneliness he experienced, was that someday he was going to change the way his people were treated. He was going to do everything he could to build shelters for these victimized people. He would give them something he did not have: a place to rest, to get food and an education. A place to call home.

Trong and his wife Rani are the Founders of the Tronie Foundation which gives an opportunity for members of the Real Estate industry and others to make a difference in their communities. They share a passion to be a voice for victims of human trafficking and to provide them with resources for a fresh start. Trong and Rani have pushed for laws that curb human trafficking at the state and national level, including appearances at the World Conference on Human Trafficking.

February 5, 2013 by SHI Staff

4 Ways to Fight Sex Trafficking

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Anyone can join the fight against domestic minor sex trafficking. Here are 4 simple ways you can take action today. Share them with your friends, family, and coworkers. Let’s each do our part and together end demand for sex trafficking.

1. Write a letter to your local media editor or congressional representative, to inform them
about domestic minor trafficking. Let your representatives and newspapers know that victims of
child sex trafficking exist in every state, even your own. Ask your legislators to commit to providing
safe shelters for victims, and increased penalties for buyers and traffickers. The more phone
calls, letters, and emails your legislator receives, the more action will occur. Visit our “Join the
Cause” page for more information.

2. Fight for justice online! Use social media and blogs to spread the word to your online community
of friends, family and neighbors. Participate and invite your friends to our Facebook or
Twitter accounts. Spread awareness by sharing videos, blogs, articles, pictures and other information
via social media. Join the conversation on YouTube, Vimeo, Twitter or Facebook (for both
the Defenders and Shared Hope).

3. Host or attend an awareness event in your community! How? Host an awareness event, sports
competition, fundraiser, candlelight vigil, march, movie screening, dinner, walk, run, yoga or
Zumba class with free materials and information provided by Shared Hope International.
Who’s in charge? You are! Gather your friends, neighbors and colleagues. We’ll also connect you
with other Shared Hope supporters in your area. Together, we can make a difference!

4. Join the cause! Become an Ambassador of Hope or a Defender. Ambassadors of Hope go
through an online or in-person training to become equipped to speak on behalf of Shared Hope
International. Defenders are men who take a pledge and take action to fight against domestic minor
sex trafficking and the commercial sex industry. Visit www.theDefendersUSA.org for more
information.

Click here to download the “4 ways to take action” pdf

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