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August 30, 2016 by Guest

5 Things I Learned Doing Standup

Copyrighted Content © By Marti MacGibbon, CADC-II, ACRPS

Here’s something I learned from years of performing standup in clubs, colleges, auditoriums, and a federal penitentiary: Standup is metaphor for life. It’s tough, thrilling, often painful, often fun, always rewarding. And in standup, as in life, there are myriad things that are completely beyond your control. You learn by trial and error, but learn to make the best choices you can under pressure. And when — not if — you fail, you get back up onstage as soon as possible, knowing that the process will ultimately bring you success. The biggest lessons I learned in my ten thousand hours or so of professional standup experience can help you to meet any challenge or obstacle in life.

Employ some or all of these techniques and principles and see where they take you:

Stand Up. Respect yourself, take a position, stand up for what you believe in. When you know who you are and you like yourself, you can approach life’s challenges with confidence. Build your character by taking on difficult projects and associating with people who are smarter, better, stronger and faster than you are. Never underestimate yourself. Be honest, and have a point of view. Be bold.

“Fortune sides with he who dares.” — Virgil

 Have Fun. If you’re having fun and you’re committed to your position, passionate about your process, no barrier can stand in your way — you’ll be invincible. It may take some time to win, but if you keep re-energizing your sense of fun and passion, you will conquer.

Never Hang Back, Always Move Forward. Be Proactive. Audiences respond to confidence and like-ability. When you’re onstage, always move toward the audience. Be ready to make friends, and don’t anticipate adversaries. Optimism always pays off, and when you expect good things to happen, they are more likely to happen.

Respect Others. Respect, but don’t fear others. Never underestimate your audience, or your friends, family, associates or competitors. Refrain from taking anybody, or anything for granted. Start out your day with a moment of appreciation for the people you work with. Recognize and acknowledge the accomplishments of others and know that you are part of a greater reality.

Be Yourself. Let go of the urge to downplay who you are, or to overcompensate for any real or imagined flaw or weakness. Recognize that in the white hot truth, the reality of universal thought and consciousness, no one is above you, and no one is below you. You never have to try to impress anybody, or intimidate anybody, or play any games. Standup strips away everything but what’s funny. Life strips away everything but what’s real. You are enough, right now, as you are, and if you continue the brave work, you will continue to become more, and greater, exponentially. Trust in that and continue on your path, no matter how tough the challenges.

Remember, life, like comedy, is tough but fun. Focus too much on the tough and you break down. Focus on the fun and you win out. So have fun, be strong, and keep working it.

About the Author:  Marti MacGibbon has recovered from and triumphed over human trafficking, adolescent sexual abuse/assault, homelessness, domestic violence, severe PTSD and hard-core drug addiction. Today, she is an internationally known humorous inspirational speaker and a nationally award-winning, bestselling author.

This blog post was originally part of our 2016 JuST Conference Speaker Blog Series.

 

August 22, 2016 by Guest

“Church” Controlled Human Trafficking

By Mary Knight, MSW

About the creator: Mary Knight, Filmmaker and Survivor reveals the role a church played in her trafficking as a young girl. 

This blog post was originally part of our 2016 JuST Conference Speaker Blog Series.

August 15, 2016 by Guest

The Connection Between Dissociative Identity Disorder and Sex Trafficking

By Lisa Cruz, RN-C MNN

Dissociative Identity Disorder is commonly called Multiple Personality Disorder. The disorder is generally misunderstood and often sensationally or inaccurately depicted in the media. However, did you know numerous studies have shown 1-3% of the general population meets the diagnostic criteria for Dissociative Identity Disorder?

Dissociative disorders occur on a spectrum, ranging from mild to severe. The spectrum begins with normal dissociation and is followed by dissociative amnesia. The more familiar and widely known Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) falls into the middle range of the dissociative disorders spectrum. Lastly, the most complex dissociative disorder is Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID).

 One of the most common causes of Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) is childhood sexual abuse. When a child experiences a stressful event such as sexual abuse, the fight-or-flight response is activated. Dissociation is a way of escaping psychologically when the child cannot escape physically. The child’s only escape may be to pretend the abuse is happening to someone else or another “part” of themselves. If the sexual abuse is severe and prolonged, the “part” the child repeatedly escapes to may develop its own identity, becoming completely separate from the child’s conscious and accessible memory.

DID is the result of creativity, intelligence, strength and the desire to survive – not a mental weakness or illness. DID can be healed through therapy and the integration of the separate “parts” into a new and whole self. However, if the disorder remains undiagnosed or misdiagnosed, the person cannot be helped or healed.

Trauma survivors may only have symptoms instead of memories. Many people with DID report memories of childhood trauma and obvious symptoms, such as “coming to” in an unfamiliar place or meeting unfamiliar people who know them, but as a different name. However, it is not uncommon for people to not be able to recall memories of their childhood trauma, yet still display the more subtle and harder to recognize symptoms of PTSD and DID. These symptoms can include unexplainable feelings of guilt, shame and worthlessness, unexplainable feelings of emotional numbness and detachment, mood issues, difficulty concentrating, thought insertion, depersonalization, derealization and more. Since there are no known traumatic memories to attribute the symptoms to though, the person is often misdiagnosed and only treated for surface issues, masking their true needs. When this happens, the opportunity to help bring healing and restoration to the person is missed.

It is especially important for those working with sex trafficking victims to be aware of dissociative disorders. Many trafficking victims have a history of childhood sexual abuse, a leading cause of PTSD and DID. Additionally, studies have shown women in prostitution experience the same level of PTSD as combat veterans. Furthermore, studies have shown that 35% of prostituted people and 80% of exotic dancers experience dissociative disorders. In fact, studies have shown that 5-18% of prostituted people and 35% of exotic dancers meet the diagnostic criteria for DID.

However, the situation is far from hopeless.  With proper diagnosis and help, a person can heal from dissociative disorders. In fact, there is a phenomenon called Post-Traumatic Growth. Trauma survivors can even become stronger and create a more meaningful life. They don’t just bounce back—that would be resilience— they actually bounce higher than they ever did before.

About the author: Lisa Cruz has experienced Post-Traumatic Growth after surviving child sex trafficking and Dissociative Identity Disorder. Lisa has been a Registered Nurse for 23 years and is the founder of Nurses Against Trafficking. 

This blog post was originally part of our 2016 JuST Conference Speaker Blog Series.

June 28, 2016 by Samantha

Human Trafficking Awareness Week in Mesa, AZ

The Mesa City Council announced a Proclamation establishing June 26-July 2 as Human Trafficking Awareness Week in Mesa, Arizona.

Mesa law enforcement and officials have taken up the fight against human trafficking, working with Shared Hope and the Arizona Anti-Trafficking Network to tackle and prevent exploitation in the City. In 2015 the Mesa Police Department initiated Project Blue Heat to identify and rescue child sex trafficking victims, and to arrest predators.

In 2016, the Police Department created the Human Exploitation and Trafficking Squad (HEaT) and zeroed in on the traffickers and buyers as the offenders.

Thank you to Mayor John Giles for putting your hand to proclaiming Human Trafficking Awareness Week!

The Proclamation -Human Trafficking Awareness Week Proclamation

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June 24, 2016 by Guest

What Could I Do to Make a Difference?

A Guest Post from Shannon in Virginia.

When I became an Ambassador of Hope, I was passionate about spreading awareness of trafficking in my native state of West Virginia. Nestled in the Appalachian Mountains, surrounded by rich natural and cultural resources, it is easy to feel you are far away from the rest of the world. Unfortunately, West Virginia struggles with real world problems, such as severe poverty, drug use and unemployment. I grew up knowing the state I loved lagged behind others in economic growth and the health of its citizens. As I became involved in combatting sex trafficking, it broke my heart to find out that West Virginia also lagged behind in its laws to protect victims and bring justice to the people who exploit them.

2As I began encouraging citizens and legislators to ask for stronger laws to protect their children, I have been honored to work with advocates and everyday citizens to educate West Virginians about the topic and ways that they can take action. In a recent visit, I spoke to a roller derby group about warning signs of trafficking while they are on the road traveling to competitions, worked with a women’s organization to hold a community screening of our prevention film Chosen, and was a guest on a radio show to talk about how West Virginia can strengthen its laws.

I was especially humbled to speak to a group of law enforcement officers, child and victim advocates in my hometown. These men and women are on the front lines of the issue and work hard to protect vulnerable populations from people who hurt them. It was exciting to meet the West Virginia State Police corporal (pictured here on the right) that had successfully worked a case I often use to illustrate that trafficking does not have to involve money, but that it can be anything of value exchanged for sexual acts. In this case, a man solicited elementary-age victims over the Internet and lured them with Ugg boots and cigarettes.  The perpetrator received a long prison sentence and will be unable to harm other children in the community. Read the story here.

Though West Virginia struggles with issues that make it vulnerable to trafficking, it has heroes like this officer, concerned citizens and legislators that continue to sponsor and push for stronger laws against trafficking. They all recognize that there is a need for awareness and are constantly working to ensure West Virginia lives up to its state motto, “Mountaineers Are Always Free.” I am happy to do my small part.

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