Leading a worldwide effort to eradicate sexual slavery...one life at a time
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Brianna will tell you the dramatic turn from an honor student and athlete to an adult entertainer started with an encounter near her small, home town of La Center, Washington.
“In three days, I went from a straight A student to becoming a stripper,” said Brianna, a La Center woman who does not want her last name published.
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Are you a modern day hero?
With over 100,000 children enslaved in the sex trafficking industry in the U.S. every year, the question arises: how do we end demand for child sex trafficking?
The answer? Men need to be heroes. This will end demand.
Definition of a hero: a man admired for his achievements and noble qualities, an illustrious warrior, one who shows great courage.
If all men were true heroes (at their jobs, in their communities, in their families) — they would stop disrespecting and objectifying women. If all guys did not objectify women, they would naturally stop watching porn. And the pornography industry fuels the child prostitution industry. Here is the process: many men who watch porn continue to seek bigger thrills, and naturally begin going to strip clubs, which many times ends up with these men soliciting sex from a prostituted women or child. Simply put, every time a guy looks at porn, he is essentially dropping money into the pockets of pimps. This ongoing cycle of buyers wanting a product (sex with a minor) fuels demand.
But what can you do? This seems like an almost impossible challenge to solve. The media, friends, family members may not understand or be supportive.
But one man can take the pledge. One man can tell a couple of his friends about his commitment to help end demand. One man can hold himself and his friends accountable for their actions toward women and children. One man can help add gasoline to the flame of a wildfire movement. And together, we can flip our society, our country, and our world upside-down and end demand for domestic minor sex trafficking.
The answer to this problem is simple, but initiating, starting, and building the movement proves more difficult.
Women and children need heroes – they need Defenders.
That’s the number of American men who will buy sex at some time during their lives. That number may seem exaggerated, but not when you look at the fact that 100,000 children will be trafficked in the U.S. this year.
That means that there are a lot of men out there who buy children for sex.
But this doesn’t have to continue. We can stop this.
But how?
How do we stop these men from buying sex? And how do we ensure that they won’t fall back into their old ways?
Several means of deterring buyers, “johns”, have been tried:
What’s the most effective method? What will stop these men from continuing to destroy the lives of these young girls?
According to a 2011 study on Boston buyers of sex, adding buyer’s names to the official sex offender registry is the greatest deterrent for johns. It beats out jail time, greater penalties, and community service. Unfortunately, it is also more effective than putting these men through “john school.”
Right now, it seems like cold, hard sentencing, and registering these men on the sex offenders list is the best way to deter buyers of sex.
But who’s to say that couldn’t change?
Could these men be reeducated? One john who went through a reeducation program in Tennessee said: “I’m so embarrassed … These girls are somebody’s daughters. I have a daughter.” He changed. Could other men be effectively taught that these girls they’re buying are someone’s daughter or sister?
We hope so.
What about you? What can you do today to turn johns into Defenders?
Give time, give money, and educate yourselves and others about America’s serious problem of sex trafficking. Spread the word.
In the mountains of Katmandu, Nepal up a winding cobblestone street surrounded by ancient Nepalese buildings, garlic cloves hang from windows and hay bales dry in the sun. Women dressed in traditional garb spin yarn on the side of the road and children dressed in matching uniforms scuttle by on their way to school. Smoke from the chimney stacks can be seen in the distance as brick makers are hard at work. There on that winding road in the hill country sits a quaint tea shop. To the average passerby, it might appear to be a typical tea shop consisting of nothing more than a small front kitchen and several tables. Yet to Shamita and Kala, this tea shop signifies strength, success and freedom from Nepals’ brutal sex trafficking industry.
The owners, Kala and Shamita, are two female business leaders in Nepal—a rarity in a culture that often devalues women as property of men. Shamita and Kala once thought their lives were no more valuable than providing their bodies to man after man in the brothels of Mumbai. Even after they escaped the horrors of sex slavery through the support of Shared Hope’s partner, they were shunned by their village upon returning to Nepal. The life they never chose now banned them from those who were supposed to love and respect them most- their own father forced them to leave.
This story is all too common for women in Nepal. There is big money for traffickers who trick the women to leave through the false promise of love or a better job. Sometimes the trafficker exploits a family’s poverty- convincing parents sell their own daughters. Even if these women find a way to pay off their “debt,” the payment that the brothel owner paid the trafficker, or escape from the violent, forced situation, they often have no home to return to in Nepal. This lack of options forces many back into the violent arms of the brothel.
But Shamita and Kala did have another option. After leaving their village their next stop was Asha Nepal. “Asha” translates to “hope” in Nepalese, and this is exactly what our partner provided to the sisters.
Shared Hope staff originally met Kala and Shamita in Mumbai. They were living in an apartment that our President and Founder, Linda Smith, had secured while our partner was still building a permanent home for women and children in Nepal. Previously, their home had been one of Mumbai’s infamous brothels in the red light district. They were one of many women who desired to return to the home they knew before their exploitation, Nepal.
To meet this need, Shared Hope partnered with a visionary leader in Nepal and a team in India to develop a Village of Hope in Nepal. This home allows women from Nepal who were trafficked to India to return to their home country, even if they are banned from every returning to their family again. Together, Shared Hope Founder Linda Smith and our Nepalese partners built a home and a nurturing family for these women.
Now, moving beyond restoration, Shamita and Kala are breaking barriers in the community, showing they are more than survivors; they are thrivers. Their success is helping to shift cultural norms in Nepal. Their lives are testament that life beyond the brothel is possible. Success is possible. Freedom is possible. Anything can be possible.
